Ultimately, what you put out into the universe is what you are going to be getting out of it and this goes for everything. If you have any bad ideas about black magic at all, why would you even get involved? It is not so much that black and white magic are so aversely different. The differences lie largely with the intentions and the methods. Either way, you could be led to the successful accomplishment of what you wish and most definitely to a learning experience.
When you do decide to use white magic love spells, at first you may think it is too light of a method to truly penetrate the seemingly insurmountable barriers to your happy love life. Just because white magic does not have all the dark glamor and shadow bling to it that black magic does is not a reason to consider it any less effective. As a matter of fact, magical manifestation rides on love as a creation factor for changing energy. When you are using love spells from the angle of white magic, you are using love to attract love.
This is one of the most basic and essential love and manifestation identification you can form in your life. Oddly, many people have never form this kind of loving bond with abundance. Always trying to start a healthy relationship pattern when you have never been able to establish one before is almost pointless without help. Seeking the services of expert spell casters with real experience in white magic will help you understand how your spiritual consciousness plays a strong role in how life unfolds.
Now it is clearer still that professional help is needed. Much like psychology is a field of practical applied science, magic is too. It is very real that people can shift reality. The acts of magic will generally manifest without all the sparkles and special effects found on TV and Movies. Magic looks ordinary but it a little bit more than that. Though the roots of effectiveness are grounded in consciousness itself, the actions themselves are completely natural and due to genetics.
We are literally handed the keys to the kingdom from birth and for many of us we think of it as the genetic code. With all of the definitions for totality, we are consistently growing to see that all forces are essentially one energy, one love, so to speak. It is by unifying intention and focus that spells for love can be successful as a blessing to all parties involved. This lays the positive fruits of the labor into the hands of those who deserve it. In this case, that is you and the spell caster.
Sometimes it is described as setting the intention of love in a womb, allowing it to grow over time through numerous moon cycles. As the intention grows and matures, life begins to change in favor of accepting the love that is manifesting. You may not even always know that opportunities are arising but, as they do, you will be increasingly prepared to have your wishes granted.